Jorge Gerrero: If the guys do it, the women constantly complain they are doing it wrong.\\\\
Gennie Shauer: I don't think it should be expected. You should both contribute and do equal amount of house work.
Monroe Rainey: I am 22 female wife of 24 year old man. We have a 6 month old daughter... He hasn't been very excited about much with the baby..an example would be I noticed her teeth coming in and was very excited he didn't seem to really care. He does not really play a whole lot with her or read etc unless I suggest it..he easily gets irritated with her when she is upset.I know he loves her very much but he just acts distant .he is very sweet and gets me flowers etc I just don't understand why he is weird with the baby...Show more
Luis Farlow: diamond read the question properly hun i said IM NOT DOING IT ME AND MY PARTNER ARE DISCUSSING IT DUH
Ofelia Kieck: Leave the room when I feel his tone is no longer respectful and re-enter the conversati! on at a later time when he is no longer emotional.
Russ Kiernan: It's legal to marry your first cousin in the UK. That's the closest relative you can marry.
Raleigh Lufkin: WOW under NO circumstances is a woman obligated to do a mans laundry, make there dinner or any other chore! that stuff is suppose to be divided equally and if you do, do that as a favor( not because you have too,) that is suppose to be something nice to thank your husband or boyfriend for treating you great. so if he deserves it then it would be nice for you to do that for him sometimes but dont let him take advantage of youStand up for yourself. you are a strong ,independent woman....Show more
Joni Ziak: Shout back, it is obvious that he is hard hearing and shouts to hear himself.
Sheree Hipwell: I dont think all men are like that. I've met some who are quite the opposite. My ex was like that....now he's the ex. (Not just because of that though)
Mario Stricklan: If it was a! ngry shouting I'd leave the room until he calmed down. If he ! just shouts because he's loud or has a hearing problem just tell him to stop shouting every time he does it. My husband's loud too and I tell him to keep his voice down.
Gabriel Realmuto: No. I tend to prefer doing my own laundry so I know where it is. Chores are all negotiable.
Paul Maymi: I think it is a bit sad that he is this way. Maybe his own parents or at least his dad was distant from him. However, I think a lot of young guys are like this. They think of all the fun things they could be doing whether its going out with their friends, watching TV, playing video games etc and by comparison playing with a baby is boring.I think you need to have a serious talk with him and let him know that he has a big responsibiliy on his hands. Psychologists will tell you that girls who do not get enough attention from their fathers develop all kinds of insecurity complexies and later on in life are always seeking approval and validation from guys....Show more
Elden! Dedon: If you want to do it, fine but if it becomes expected, screw that.
Stanton Degregorio: Is this ANGRY shouting or is he just LOUD? Some people just don't have good volume control, or perhaps HIS hearing isn't the best. You can work on the first one by saying, "I can hear you fine. Please dial down the volume." And when he does, say thank you. If you think it's his hearing, then he needs to get it tested.If he's ANGRY...then you need counseling and he needs anger management classes....Show more
Kristina Brockwell: it's illegal everywhere. . . why do that? It's NASTY
Danette Slotnick: Well, all men are different and show their loyalty, love in different ways.Maybe this is just his way. If he doesn`t hurt her, and is willingly to help out with her, I think this is just his way.Not everyone shows love outwardly.Of course, there ARE men who aren keen on babies, per se. And there are plenty of this kind too....Show more
Pearlie Medora: They d! on't usually get too excited about their kids until the kids can walk a! nd talk. It's not that they don't love and appreciate them - they just don't interact with them much until that age/stage.It's normal.
Pasquale Pollet: My husband is doing the laundry right now :)
Victor Macallister: Well i dont wanna comment on your family life but then some men are different too.
Ambrose Mumma: There are Assertiveness Training courses available virtually everywhere. They are not just for the aggressive on to take.I would suggest you enrol and then let him know you have done so. Invite him to take the same course - hopefully not in the same class.I have taken several which have gotten me to be respected as one who has leadership skills. The first one I took had some participants 'mandated' by the court to attend (I became aware of this as the course rolled along). Because of this the 'boys' taking the course had a class at the same time as the 'girls' taking the course had theirs....Show more
Lou Rought: Go buy some videos of T! he Dr. Phil Show and let it run constantly.
Sammie Bocanegra: Now these are issues that you need to discuss with your man, to me, I like to do my own laundry, and for the most part my wife doesn't want me to wash any of her stuff, heck, and we have a rule, when the kid gets into the 6th grade they wash all there own clothes, but sit your husband down, and discuss this stuff with him, alot of this stuff should revolve around schedule, and likes and dislikes Good Luck...Show more
Chanda Wittwer: If he works and you don't? Yes.
Sena Highman: it usually is lol...its funny how most men can fix a car, build a house, or do other complex things like that but they cant figure out how to work that pesky washing machine lol....compromise, wash the clothes, but make him fold them with you.
Porfirio Cahall: It is usually more efficient when you combine yours and his together to make a full load. Most women don't want their S.O. to do their laundry so the women u! sually end up with the task. In my house we each do our own.
Cur! t Broadhead: He very well could feel trapped. 24 is awfully young now to be settled down for most guys. He'll either grow out of this - or he won't. If he doesn't.... I wish you luck. You might want to start planning for a future as a single Mom soon.... not saying it WILL happen - but that's the way it looks to me, and I've seen it before many times....Show more
Gordon Showes: no i don't expect it i like washing my own clothes due to the fact that i would get mad if anything happened to them I wear alot or name brand clothing
Helen Zafar: no it's not part of "the job". at least i've never seen it written anywhere :)that is why it is important to teach children to be self sufficient. male and female.try not to get involved in a relationship that is sexist or has expectations of you because of your gender.
Piedad Bassiti: i would shout back big time ,,i wouldnt take that ****,,,,
Damaris Weiler: not only should it be illegal...its disgusting. read th! is.. http://www.guardian.co.uk/comment/story/0,,1655722...
Javier Holsonback: I can tell you, it would never get to the point where it could be called a habit. I'm not going to tolerate anyone shouting at me-end of story.
Eldridge Rieves: Because you went ahead and chose to get yourself pregnant without first discussing it with your husband. If this was a planned pregnancy, your husband would be more involved.
Lita Thammorongsa: not that im thnking of doing but me and my partner are having a huge debate and want to no thanks peeps
Deangelo Marchak: Some men just feel a bit pushed aside when a baby comes along,they see their wives/partners take to it all very naturally and feel like they wouldn't be able to do it as well so they back off.Most men who behave this way are not being mean or actually pushing their child away,they just feel a bit inadequate and unsure of how to deal with things and get close to the baby so yes it is a good thing that ! you encourage him and you should keep on doing that.She will soon be w! alking and talking,she will go to him and he will be able to play with her,interact with her and see that she very much needs and wants him as much as you but right now to him it probably feels like you and her have a bond and he is in the way.It's not something that is anyone's fault,it's just the way things pan out sometimes,why not talk to him about it? It really could make a difference to hear how he feels....Show more
Coralie Goldsberry: At my house nothing is expected. We both work, we both clean and do laundry. We have always worked different hours. I do what I do and he picks up later where I left off.
Lilli Kochel: i do, just so he does not look like an idiot..
Conrad Puleio: no it is not expected of you. and your not offending me. im not a maid nor a mother to my husband
Giovanni Malool: Ignore him. Then when he's calm - I'd be explaining why I won't be yelled at and what mutual respect entails. Until he stopped the shouting - I'd also be! cutting him off from sex. If he doesn't get it when I say it - he'll get it when he's gettin none.
Cornelius Thornborrow: Laundry is not a mandatory requirement of a wife or girlfriend and neither is cooking. You should be able to clean up after yourself and do your own laundry and so should he. You do not have to do his laundry. That is up to you and it should be your choice to help him out, but remember that once you start he may expect it.
Jodie Capella: well if u guys just dating make him do his own laundry. If u marry, then why not. lol But personally, I do my own laundry. :D
Anton Waln: Girls are taught to have dolls.Guys aren't all that interested until children can interact.Give him some time to come around and don't totally turn him off by then.
Samara Siewers: Um...no. We divide the chores according to who likes to do what, not who is SUPPOSED to do what. For example, he cooks, does the dishes, and does the laundry. I put the laundr! y away, tidy up the house, vaccume, mop, etc. It kind of helps that ou! r schedules are a little wacky. He works during the day so cooks himself dinner, and I work nights, so I eat while he's at work. It all depends on the person you are with, and the dynamics of your relationship.
Armando Somes: It is only your job if you are a housewife. I'm a housewife, my job is to keep our home clean and our children happy and healthy. His job is to go out into the world and earn money to pay our bills so I have a house to keep clean (and clean his laundry).
Rosalba Lingner: what would you do if your husband have a habit of shouting at you?
Aubrey Tirri: maybe he has a hearing problem,if not tell him to shut the f-up and stop yelling at you or you want a divorce. im sure he didn't do that before you met right? nobody need to be treated that way.
Toby Caswell: Calmly, and in a low voice, tell him that if he wants to speak to me, he can do so without yelling. Speaking quieter makes the person yelling have to stop so they can hear y! ou.If he continued, I would tell him I'm not listening to him until he can speak in a normal voice and leave the room.
Cletus Crotts: could be that you focus all your attention on the Baby and he feels like second fiddle.He also could heel overwhelmed with all the responsibility at his young age.